Reconnect with who you are

healing from trauma & covert grief

Let me know if this sounds familiar...

I know you’re an amazing caregiver, looking after the people around you and you’re likely in a caring, service-based profession as well.

You’ve been pushing yourself so hard for so long, you’re starting to run out of energy and drive.

Life has been so hard for you.

But you’re a fighter.

There have been multiple times in your life when have had to face yet another significant challenge.

It slows you down, you learn how to shoulder that burden and then somehow you find just a bit more strength in yourself, you stand up and keep you keep going.

Every time that emotional burden becomes just a little bit more hard to hold and you have moments where you feel your heart is going to break along with your back.

You're not even sure if you know who you are anymore...

Imagine what it will feel like when you're no longer defined by your traumatic life experiences and struggles

Imagine feeling in control of your life and emotions again, knowing how to prevent and reverse the damage done to your body by chronic stress and covert grief

Imagine yourself with the courage and empowerment you need to embrace the unknown and confidently go after your life purpose

That's exactly what the Ultimate Life Survival Guide shows you how to do - one simple step at a time.

Step One: Accept Radical Repsonsibility for Your Life

Accepting responsibility has absolutely nothing with accepting blame. Steven Covey, the author of the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People defined responsibility as your ability to respond. You’ve walked through a lot of challenges and trauma in your life and you didn’t deserve. Freedom comes when you accept this point in your life as your starting point. Accept that everything that has brought you to this point has shaped you, and it’s up to you to decide where to go with your life from here.

Step Two: Master Your Stress

We’ve been taught to keep going, keep pushing through, to “toughen up” and “get over it”. This mindset of pushing down difficult emotions, ignoring them, or worse – becoming numb to them – has us storing these stressful experiences in our body. This isn’t woo-woo, out there pseudoscience. There is significant evidence that proves our body will adapt to these higher levels of stress chemicals and see this as the “new normal” to try and be maintained. So if you really want to heal your body, you have to process the grief and stress that you’ve been keeping hidden away all of these years. I know this sounds scary – but there’s a safe way to do this that will help you fully release the past, and only hold onto the lessons.

Step Three: Rewrite Your Rule Book

Your self-talk and core beliefs were formed in childhood and have been reinforced by your life’s experiences. Have you ever noticed that when you or someone you know gets a new car and all of a sudden you see that car everywhere? Our core beliefs create this same kind of filter looking for evidence that proves them to be true and dismisses or ignores anything that goes against them. This means that if you experienced abandonment, abuse, neglect or trauma as a child, you will continue to live your life through the lens of those experiences and only find information to strengthen this belief – even though it’s untrue. In order to truly heal from your past trauma, you have to rewrite the rule book that your mind uses to keep you stuck in the same cycles, circumstances and patterns.

Step Four: Process Your Covert Grief

When you’ve spent all of your life being everything for everyone else, it’s only natural that slowly you would lose connection to who you really are. In fact, right now you may be feeling a loss of identity because of a recent crisis, struggle or diagnosis that has left you feeling defeated once again. I want to make one thing very clear. You did not deserve any of this. You are a very caring, compassionate person, and were taught from a young age that people-pleasing is praised and so you’ve learned to de-prioritize yourself to the point that you wouldn’t even hold the door open, or give up your seat on the bus for yourself.  Logically you know you deserve to be loved and taken care of, but emotionally you don’t feel worthy. Reconnecting to your true self to process and release your grief is one of the most empowering experiences you’ll ever know, and once this happens you’ll know your life purpose and feel confident to go after it no matter where you’re at in your life!

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